Invest in Yourself

Invest in Yourself

Everyone talks about investments, but how many business owners invest in themselves?

We have this Lone Ranger attitude in this country, that we’re suppose to know it all and be all. Asking or seeking out help is a sign of weakness. We put on a mask of confidence yet wonder why it’s so hard to get clients.

While working on homework from my coach, I had a HUGE revelation. To make a long story short, what I realized is when I am aligned with my passion, strengths and values, work is effortless and enjoyable. All those times when I struggled, I blamed myself – “I’m not trying hard enough”, “I’m not smart enough” or some other self-flagellation.

The problem wasn’t me, the problem was I was pursuing the wrong work. I can’t begin to explain the effect this had on me. A huge weight had been lifted off my shoulders.  Self-limiting beliefs that had been haunting me – literally for decades – were dislodged and wiped away. The clouds parted and the angels sang. Progress came quickly. All because I decided to make an investment in myself.

Coaching is an investment. It doesn’t have all the bells and whistles or prestige of a fancy new phone. But unlike that phone, which will become obsolete within a year, coaching will only continue to add value, letting you take control and create a life aligned with your values, passions and strengths. What I’ve spent on coaching and other professionals has shortened my learning curve by years. The ROI has always been in my favor.

By all means, run your business lean but don’t skimp on your most important asset – YOU.

 

Change Begins by Changing Your Mind

Change Begins by Changing Your Mind

I made a commitment to myself. It’s a pretty significant investment in myself and my future. I have no doubts that I hired the right person and it will change the course of my business as well as be a growing experience. When I signed on the dotted line, I was thrilled. This was happening.

And 24 hours later I am terrified. Terrified that I am an impostor. Terrified that I don’t have what it takes. Terrified that I’m going to “blow” it. All over a piece of paper with four questions on it.

And so it goes.

I sit here quietly in my discomfort. What other choice do I have? It’s not going to go away anytime soon so I might as well get used to it. Because there is one thing I know, nothing’s going to change unless I do. 

I want this change.

Change is uncomfortable. Change triggers all sorts of fears, beliefs, resistance – my brain is literally screaming for me to stop – the red light is flashing – “DANGER” as this fear raises my stress level.

Change helps expose some chinks in the armor. If we bring awareness to our fears, expose and examine them, we learn what we need to attend to.

Just writing that last sentence helped calm my mind. It’s shed some light on an area that needs my attention, my compassion. It’s reminded me how much I have undervalued and taken for granted my gifts.

The four questions are innocuous. It’s the thoughts and self doubts that emerged when I read them. This is usually the case and luckily I’ve had enough practice to know just because I think it doesn’t mean it’s true. If the thought isn’t serving me, I can choose to think something different – something that will benefit me, help me move forward towards my goals. What a revelation!

Any change we make begins by changing our mind – getting rid of self-limiting thoughts and beliefs and replacing them with beliefs that empower, energize and excite us. As with so many things on this journey, it’s simple, but it’s not easy. Our thoughts often lie below the surface, silently running the show. It takes practice to bring them to the surface and expose them to the light. It’s a process, but one that will pay off big for us in the long run.

Now if you’ll excuse me, I have some questions to answer.